Love in Deeds at Work: Serving Others Where It Actually Counts

By Heather Shaffer

Most of us don’t wake up in the morning thinking, “Today I’m going to radically love people for Jesus.” We wake up thinking about deadlines, meetings, emails, and whether the coffee machine is going to cooperate. Work feels practical, fast-paced, and sometimes disconnected from our faith.

But Scripture keeps pulling us back to a different way of seeing our day.

“Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.” (1 John 3:18)

That verse doesn’t give us much room to hide. Love isn’t an idea. It’s not a value statement on a website or something we post about on LinkedIn. Love shows up in what we actually do—especially at work, where most of our time, influence, and relationships already live.

Love Looks Like Service, Not Slogans

In business, we talk a lot about leadership, culture, and values. But love doesn’t usually enter the conversation unless it’s softened into something safer like “respect” or “collaboration.” The problem is, love is supposed to be inconvenient. It costs something. It requires us to see people as more than roles or outputs.

Loving in deeds at work starts with a simple shift: moving from What do I need from this person? to What does this person need from me right now?

That might mean slowing down to listen when it would be easier to rush. It might mean giving credit instead of taking it. It might mean telling the truth kindly, even when it risks discomfort. These aren’t grand gestures. They’re small acts of service repeated over time—and they change environments.

Serving Others Is Not Weak Leadership

There’s a myth in professional spaces that serving others makes you less effective or less authoritative. Jesus flipped that idea on its head. He didn’t separate leadership from service—He fused them together.

When you serve the people around you, you actually build trust. You create psychological safety. You make it easier for others to do their best work. That’s not just spiritually meaningful; it’s strategically sound.

Think about the people you most enjoy working with. They’re usually the ones who make your job easier, not harder. They anticipate needs. They follow through. They notice when someone is overwhelmed and step in. That’s love in deeds—and it’s contagious.

Love Shows Up in Ordinary Moments

Most of us imagine love in dramatic terms, but at work it usually looks very ordinary.

It looks like responding to an email with clarity instead of defensiveness.
It looks like mentoring someone without needing recognition.
It looks like being patient with someone who’s still learning.
It looks like honoring commitments when no one is watching.

These moments rarely feel spiritual, but they are. They’re expressions of faith woven into the fabric of everyday responsibility. You don’t need a new job or a new title to live this way. You just need awareness and willingness.

Why Words Alone Don’t Work

Faith-based conversations at work can be tricky. People are cautious—and understandably so. But actions speak in ways words never can. When people experience consistency, humility, and genuine care, they become curious about what motivates it.

1 John 3:18 isn’t telling us to stop speaking about love. It’s telling us not to stop there. Our credibility grows when our words and actions line up. Over time, service creates space for deeper conversations—ones rooted in trust, not pressure.

You Weren’t Meant to Do This Alone

Here’s the part many professionals miss: living this way consistently is hard. Work is demanding. People disappoint us. Pressure builds. Without encouragement and accountability, it’s easy to drift back into survival mode.

That’s why community matters.

At Follower of One, we believe your workplace is your mission field—not something you have to escape to live out your faith. But mission works best in community. When you’re surrounded by others who are trying to love in deeds, not just intentions, you’re reminded that this way of working is possible.

You get practical ideas. You get stories from people navigating the same tensions. You get encouragement when serving feels costly and unseen.

Love Changes More Than the Workplace

When you consistently serve others at work, something else happens—you change. Your faith becomes integrated instead of compartmentalized. Your work gains deeper meaning. You stop measuring success only by outcomes and start measuring it by faithfulness.

That doesn’t make your job easier, but it makes it richer. And over time, it creates ripple effects you may never fully see.

Love in deeds is rarely flashy. It doesn’t trend. But it transforms.

If you’re a business professional who wants to live out your faith in practical, grounded ways—right where you work—you don’t have to figure it out alone.

Join a community that loves to serve each other at followerofone.org.

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