Can we really love someone we don’t know? We can love a certain place or a certain kind of food. The Greeks had at least 4 words that are often translated with the word “love” in the English. This is the grandest of those words, and it means unconditional love. It means we actively choose to do what’s best for the other person. It doesn’t have as much to do with affection, or emotion as much as it is an active choice. We do what’s best for them.
Jesus makes a point that this is a command. We don’t have to guess. And he gives it to them on the last night he is a free man with his closest friends. Judas isn’t around. We must perform this “others-first” love. But how?
He will repeat this command in 5 verses. In between, we have some conditional phrases that help us understand what he meant. The first is, “just as I have loved you.”
So, how did Jesus love these guys. He spent a great amount of time with them. He taught them. He’s going to die for them. Jesus has the greatest others-first love for us. He is the standard. Here he commands us to pass that standard along “just as” he has loved those disciples and all the disciples after them. He chose them. He invested in them. He gave his life for them. In Romans 12, Paul challenges us to be a living sacrifice. We don’t have to give up our lives, we give our time and energy away.
Ask the Holy Spirit to show you how to love someone extra today. If we increase just a bit every week for the rest of our lives, we still won’t get close to where Jesus is, but we will experience his joy, purpose and presence filling our lives. Ask God to expand your love for the people you interact with today. It’s harder to love people you’re not around. The people that you interact with are the first people we get to love. What ideas come to mind? Make a note and do them. Don’t let anything stop you.
Then, do it again tomorrow. Love “just” as Christ loved us. Build the habit. Either Jesus is King and we do what he says, or he’s not.
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